4. He thinks you’ve changed.

These are some examples of what he might be thinking:

• You used to be at home and pay a lot of attention to him. Now you’re a hot career woman after you got that new job and you’re never around. Whats more, when you are around you just talk about WORK.
• You used to be so open and easy to talk to. Now you’re criticizing him for everything.
• You used to like to go out and have a good time and laugh. Now all you want to do is stay at home (and be with the kids, and relax after work, etc etc)
• You used to think he was wonderful. Now all you do is nag, nag, nag and never tell him how much you appreciate him.

5. He wants someone to talk to.

Maybe you’re very involved in the household, with your kids, with your job, or heck, ALL THREE. You don’t have the time and energy to have long, deep conversations with him like you used to when you were first dating. He misses that. He craves the intimacy. So he may be online looking for other lonely women he can connect with and talk to.

6. He doesn’t feel loved or appreciated at home.

Have you been telling him that he needs to “shape up?” Have you been at him about getting a better job, working out more, needing to fix this or that around the house, change the oil in your car, help with the household chores, be home more, make more money?

This is the deadly mistake many women in regards to their attitudes toward their man that makes the relationship VULNERABLE to infidelity.

He probably FEELS he’s doing the best he can, and he looks at your “suggestions” as nagging.

A man wants to feel appreciated, but more importantly, he wants to feel that what he’s doing for the relationship is making you happy. If you’re constantly criticizing him, he will start looking to feel good elsewhere.

Any woman who tells him what a great job he’s doing, how good he looks, what a nice guy he is…will be very attractive to your man. He almost won’t be able to “help himself” from wanting to spend more time with her.

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