The important thing to remember is that if your man is displaying one or two of these signs, that doesn’t necessarily mean he’s doing something with another woman. It’s when he’s consistently doing a COMBINATION of these that there is cause for worry.

1. He’s easily annoyed, distant, touchy or defensive.

Even if your man is a genius at figuring out ways to hide the fact that he’s talking to another woman or even meeting with her, it’s a much more difficult thing to change the way he feels and behaves around you 7/24.

Is he forgetting things you’re telling him, like the fact that you had plans to see a movie Friday night when he calls you at 3 pm to tell you he’s going out for drinks with some colleagues after work?

Has he stopped making plans for the weekend with you, or talking about upcoming vacation ideas?

Does he act like he’s in a fog a lot of the time, like he’s thinking about something (or someone) and you asking him how his day was is just an ANNOYANCE?

2. Does his mood change inexplicably?

Was he SULLEN but after reading his email or listening to a voice message he’s now PERKY and smiling? Maybe his lover called to apologize for a fight they had, or was setting up a rendeavous. No wonder you can’t figure him out. He’s leading a double life.

3. Errand Boy.

Does he offer to go on grocery store or other errands in the evenings or weekends? But he always takes his cellphone or is gone longer than he should be? He’s probably looking for an excuse to get out of the house so he can call his lover, or even MEET UP with her somewhere. He may be telling you that he’s going to get some milk for your coffee in the morning, but what he’s REALLY doing is making out with her in the corner of the grocery store parking lot.

Check the receipt when he comes home. It usually shows the date and time the sale was made. Did he make the purchase 15 minutes ago or an hour ago? What was he doing all the time before that, or after? 

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