Something doesn’t feel right with your relationship.
Your man is behaving different toward you. He’s less affectionate with you. He is being distant. You don’t talk the same, warm, intimate way you used to. He doesn’t seem as “into” sex as he used to be…or…maybe it’s the opposite—he’s into sex the same or MORE, but during the act he isn’t as tender or loving.
He doesn’t seem as involved in your “life together” as he was before. He skulks around the house doing “his thing”, watching TV or spending endless hours in front of the computer. Or maybe he’s just not around as much. He’s been spending a lot of late nights at work or going out on long errands on weekends.
You wonder if you’re imagining things. You wonder if you’re just being paranoid. Maybe you’ve even asked him, “What’s going on with you lately?” but he acts annoyed and replies, “Nothing. What are you talking about?”
Or perhaps you’ve already half-jokingly asked him if he’s involved with someone else. He doesn’t appreciate the joke. He gets angry and defensive, going so far as to tell YOU that YOU’RE CRAZY.
That’s right. Pretty unbelievable, isn’t it? He’s changing and acting different, but YOU are the one going crazy.
Infuriating, isn’t it?
So you don’t bring it up again. The last thing you want to do is start a fight, or worse, push him FURTHER AWAY.
But the thought keeps nagging away at you, night and day.
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