Then he ignored me, after the 3rd month, he asked me out. we went out and it was great, he was booming with happiness all throughout the date. although he told me that he was hesitating and was changing his mind. he said he thought to himself, what good can come out of this, and ect...
  
The 1st month we went out i suffered, because he didnt call or text..or answer my calls..and we saw each other an average of once a week for an hour or two. No sex involved, just chatting, hugging, cuddling and laughing...after a month and a half...he started  tocall, i asked him to open up another email..he started to reply to my text,,and yet still no sex involved..we are almost passing 3 months of knowing each other..I started to play with him more and joke with him...i tell him everything you tell the wives to do. I always compliment him, tell him he looks great..my sexy guy.. he is mine..i missed him close..i love his hug..he makes me feel good..wow what an amazing feeling he gives me..I also tell him that he makes me smile..he is smart.. he is so cute..and sometimes i treat and pamper him like a baby,,,
  
He doesnt call me from his cell phone that is connected with his wife..but from his work cell phone. only a couple of times he called me from his house nb.. and im still not sure if it's his house office nb or the general one.  when he sees me he tells her all sorts of things.. he is going to the gym. They have a dinner at work, someone from another office in another state is here and he has to take him out...if we re staying late then its a gala dinner, or he says he has a work trip and sometimes will fly me there too.
  
He always takes his stuff to the laundry and leaves extra shirts in his car.
  
He never wanted to cheat..he loves his kids..but me pushing and stuff made him to start thinking about me..he loves the attention and care he gets from me..no sex yet.. i am amazed by him too. the only reason i didnt want to have sex imediately was to build communication, trust, respect. anticipation, and then make it grow. however my belief is once intimacy is involved then that is what keeps the relationship going.  
  
Again I dont think he will leave her, he is sooooo attached to his 3 kids. i think or i feel he also cares for her, as he treats her very well too. he treats me well too.. he is a bery caring and giving man..
  
When there is a will..there is a way... it's hard for a woman to know, sometimes she calls him when he is with me and he doesn't want to pick up, i make him pick up so she won't doubt.
  
We go out to places away from our area, or he is over my place. or in the park next to my house.
  
He calls and texts daily, i also see him from monday to frid. as we work in the same place.
  
Sometimes on the weekend, its hard for him to get out, he will volunteer to walk the dog which he never used to do before. he volunteers to stay home with the kids so he can text me and email or call. he also volunteers to drive them to places, so that way on the way back he can pass by for few min or call me.. there are many things that he is doing.  on the weekends it's usually harder, and there are times when he tells me he will call me, but doesnt. i try to be understanding too.
  
He also told me one time that his wife is very attractive.. then another time he said he is turned off by her because when he makes a move she shuts him off.. he also told me one time he is amazed by my reaction when he kisses my neck and how we connect together..he also said its not like that with her. he tells me when he sleeps with her. like one time..he told me we had sex and it was amazing... i was like what? and u have the guts to tell me amazing (of course i didn't share it, but that's what i thought.)