Author Archives: Emerson

Is Cheating Ever OK?

Is it ever understandable or justified for a person to cheat on their spouse or committed partner? Are there circumstances under which cheating can be seen as “saving” the relationship? I’ve been asked questions like this from various people in … Continue reading

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Does a Low, Sexy Voice Mean He’ll Cheat?

In an article from Time Magazine online, it claims that men with lower voice pitches and women with higher ones are deemed more attractive by the opposite sex and are probably more likely to cheat, due to increased levels of … Continue reading

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3 Tips on Maintaining a Loving, Faithful Relationship

A man wants to feel appreciated and supported. He wants to feel that you’re his lover, not his mother. He wants to know that he can make you happy and that his efforts in that regard are not in vain. Continue reading

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Introduction – Why I Wrote the Book

Several years ago, a good friend of mine admitted to me that he had been secretly having an affair for two years. While we were sitting in a bar and he explained how he had known the woman he had just married much longer than he had led everyone to believe. He had actually been seeing her while he was still living with another woman—his ex-girlfriend—and she never suspected a thing the entire time. Continue reading

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Should You Confront Him?

If he’s “innocent”, he denies it and all this exchange serves to do is annoy both of you. But if he’s “guilty”, well, he’ll deny it. Of course he will! Are you kidding me? So how do you find out the answer to your question without getting into a huge fight or creating more distance between you (especially important if he’s being honest)? It’s important to understand a couple of things about what’s playing out between the two of you. Let me explain… Continue reading

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If He Says He Loves Me…

It’s a question I’ve been asked as much as any other: “He says he loves me, but if he’s cheating, he must be lying, right?” Because it can’t POSSIBLY be both ways, right? Continue reading

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Valentine’s Day and Cheating Men

Valentine’s Day must be a catalyst for women becoming suspicious that their men is up to no good. Continue reading

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Top 5 Signs He May Be Cheating

If you know WHAT TO LOOK FOR, WHAT TO SAY, HOW TO ACT, you can figure out EXACTLY what’s going on.

I have spent the last several years doing research and conducting interviews of not only the betrayed, but the betrayers as well. Continue reading

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Story – But We’re Just Friends…

Last week I was on the computer at home checking my email and noticed that he had forgotten to sign out of his email account. On purpose or by accident I don’t know. I know I shouldn’t have but I couldn’t help myself, something told me to go in and look at his emails. Continue reading

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Story – Husband Uses Craigslist to Cheat

My first affair came about because I had a business trip planned and so I placed an ad on that cities Craigslist casual encounters section. I got a reply within an hour and began emailing back and forth for a few days. Continue reading

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