Author Archives: Emerson
Is Cheating Ever OK?
Is it ever understandable or justified for a person to cheat on their spouse or committed partner? Are there circumstances under which cheating can be seen as “saving” the relationship? I’ve been asked questions like this from various people in … Continue reading
Does a Low, Sexy Voice Mean He’ll Cheat?
In an article from Time Magazine online, it claims that men with lower voice pitches and women with higher ones are deemed more attractive by the opposite sex and are probably more likely to cheat, due to increased levels of … Continue reading
3 Tips on Maintaining a Loving, Faithful Relationship
A man wants to feel appreciated and supported. He wants to feel that you’re his lover, not his mother. He wants to know that he can make you happy and that his efforts in that regard are not in vain. Continue reading
Introduction – Why I Wrote the Book
Several years ago, a good friend of mine admitted to me that he had been secretly having an affair for two years. While we were sitting in a bar and he explained how he had known the woman he had just married much longer than he had led everyone to believe. He had actually been seeing her while he was still living with another woman—his ex-girlfriend—and she never suspected a thing the entire time. Continue reading
Should You Confront Him?
If he’s “innocent”, he denies it and all this exchange serves to do is annoy both of you. But if he’s “guilty”, well, he’ll deny it. Of course he will! Are you kidding me? So how do you find out the answer to your question without getting into a huge fight or creating more distance between you (especially important if he’s being honest)? It’s important to understand a couple of things about what’s playing out between the two of you. Let me explain… Continue reading
If He Says He Loves Me…
It’s a question I’ve been asked as much as any other: “He says he loves me, but if he’s cheating, he must be lying, right?” Because it can’t POSSIBLY be both ways, right? Continue reading
Valentine’s Day and Cheating Men
Valentine’s Day must be a catalyst for women becoming suspicious that their men is up to no good. Continue reading
Top 5 Signs He May Be Cheating
If you know WHAT TO LOOK FOR, WHAT TO SAY, HOW TO ACT, you can figure out EXACTLY what’s going on.
I have spent the last several years doing research and conducting interviews of not only the betrayed, but the betrayers as well. Continue reading