My name is Emerson Bailey, and I’m a happily married man. I’ve never cheated on my wife.
That doesn’t mean that I haven’t ever looked at another woman, or never had fantasies about one. But for me personally, the idea of cheating never crossed my mind. I’m pretty happy and fulfilled in my relationship. Some people might say that I’m the exception, not the rule.
After seeing so many of my friends go through the heartbreak of infidelity and divorce, I decided I wanted to find out why this is so epidemic, and what women can do to educate themselves about what drives their husbands or boyfriends to cheat…and how they can prevent it.
I figured I could help women by giving them the “inside scoop” on cheating men and the many different ways I knew they were hiding their secret, so they could figure things out for themselves before it was too late. So they could salvage things as quickly as possible.
So, I collected information…
I had a lot of intimate conversations with my buddies who I knew were or had cheated.
I poured through dozens of books on infidelity and the “psychological” reasons why it happens.
I even posted an ad on Craigslist all over the country, soliciting real stories from real men (and women) who had cheated, so I could question and interview them via email anonymously and find out their deepest secrets and motivations.
After years of research, observation and being the guy that my friends turned to for advice and “absolution”, I decided to write a book.
In the process, I learned a lot about how women react to men who are cheating, or the “stories and lies” they tell themselves when they suspect…but don’t know for sure.
This is my blog…